Do Your Clients Feel Sexually Secure?

Sexual Reawakening Virtual Summit

Sex is Everywhere

In the news, on TV, in magazines, on the web

What we see are images of happy men and women, smiling, laughing, hugging and often  either getting ready or actually engaging in some type of sexual activity.  It all seems so frivolous, careful and filled with excitement.  Sexual connections are portrayed as easy and fun or silly and difficult.  But the real issues that most of us face, at some moments in our lives, are rarely addressed in the media.  Yes, the drug companies now encourage us to buy erection enhancing drugs to supposedly instantly fix our problems.  But do they work as well as we are led to think they do?

Do you see clients who present with sexual issues, problems and dysfunctions that have caused them to feel insecure, anxious, inadequate, fearful or different?

Do you encourage your clients to talk about their sexual concerns?  If your focus is addictions and addictive behavior, do you include a thorough sexual history?  When you encourage couples to create greater intimacy through emotional vulnerability, do you include a focus on their sexual connection?  Are you, perhaps, a bit uncomfortable discussing these issues?

Sexuality, sexual expression, getting our sexual needs met, fulfilling our sexual desires, and enjoying sexual pleasure and intimate loving is often NOT EASY.  And we can struggle for years, even a lifetime, being unable to ever create a truly intimate connection.  Our clients, dealing with anxiety, depression, personality disorders, physical ailments, drug and other addictions and problematic behaviors, may desire love in all the wrong places and in the wrong ways.  And we can help.

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In order for long term sexual intimacy to develop, many factors have to be in place and work synergistically.  There are many reasons why sexual connections can go astray, lack fulfillment and leave us feeling frustrated, hurt, confused, angry, and even ashamed.  Over time it may become increasingly difficult to overcome our problems alone.

Many well-meaning therapists and healing practitioners provide simple solutions, easy to follow steps and formulas, to help us attract and keep the love we desire.  However, very often these techniques only work for awhile.  We may be able to meet someone who appears to be the love of our life.  We may feel mutual attraction and start and incredibly romantic and exciting relationship – for some period of time.  And then ….

The inevitable moment occurs.  The hormones die down.  Our unconditional acceptances gives way to expectations, demands, disappointment and lots of judgments – often unfavorable.  Our knight in shining armor has lost his glitter.  Our ideal princess has lost her charm.  Should we throw in the towel, break up and start looking for someone new?

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What we are left with is the real human being.

When that lustful phase ends and your clients has an opportunity to be vulnerable and open up to another person, does he or she start to dislike that previously charming person, becoming more and more annoyed by those same personality traits.  Our client’s insecurities may get triggered or he or she is being blamed for another person’s problems. And after the initial period of totally loving acceptance wears off, your client may discover profound differences in  sexual desires, interests, style and expression.  Couples that seek your help may find themselves creating more and more distance rather than opening up to deeper and more loving intimacy.  What can we do to bring back the passion and love for the people depending upon your expertise?

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Dr. Erica Goodstone is a Spiritual Relationship Healing Expert helping men and women heal their bodies and their relationships through love.For several years she has posted hundreds of articles, blogs, radio shows, videos and shared there on all the major social media channles.Having presented her comprehensive relationship healing programs throughout the U.S. and Canada over several decades, she has helped literally 1000's of men and women to heal through learning how to love.Online she continues to expand her message globally.Dr. Erica believes "Where There is Love There IS a Way".When you love, accept, listen and pay attention to your body, trust your own sense of what you truly desire,and strive to understand, appreciate and really know the other people in your life, anything and everything is possible.As therapists, none of us can do it all alone.We can work together to create a healthier, happier world.
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4 thoughts on “Do Your Clients Feel Sexually Secure?

  1. Donna Merrill

    Hi Dr. Erica,

    This is one topic that needs to be discussed. In our society we are bombarded with sex from T.V. commercials and shows to standing online in the supermarket gazing at magazines. Seems like everywhere we go sex is hitting us in the face. Now I’m not prudish at all about this, but there is no balance, especially for impressionable people.

    Where is the relationship factor? It is well hidden from things we see and hear every day. I’m not a therapist, but you have painted a perfect picture of many women I know. One of which is always depressed because she confuses sex with love….and by the way..she is in her 60’s. Just never got the point. She refuses therapy and lives her life in a tormented state of mind.

    So…what happens when the ‘honeymoon’ is over? Doesn’t anyone take that into account anymore? Hmmm.

    Thanks again for a wonderful article. I will spread this one around.

    -Donna

    1. drerica Post author

      Donna,

      What happens after the honeymoon is over, many relationships just gradually deteriorate, seeking a new thrill with somebody they don’t know well. The new person may be impressed for awhile until they get closer and the real person emerges again, and the cycle continues.

      Relationships requires a deepening of trust and love and understanding – and fun!

      Warmly,

      Erica

  2. Chris Mophart

    I like the topic not many people from where i come from would be willing to have this discussion. Just as Drerica has said love, trust and understanding is all that it takes

    1. drerica Post author

      Hi Chris,

      As a licensed Mental Health Counselor, Marriage Therapist and Certified Sex Therapist, I am comfortable talking about intimacy and sexuality. It is so important for people to learn what they need and desire and what helps them to feel safe and secure – in all aspects of life including our most intimate sexuality.

      Warmly,
      Dr. Erica

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