Pickleball Anyone? 6 Lessons Learned About Business and Life

Pickleball, Are You Kidding?

What is that? And how can I possibly learn about reaching business goals and creating success in life?  Sounds like a silly game with a pickle-shaped racket or squishy ball. An avid tennis player, until the past few years, I would never have considered such a silly game except that there was an invitation near the elevator in my building.  And the court is literally right downstairs.  So, 3 weeks ago I ventured downstairs to see what this silly game was all about.

To my surprise, although the court is much smaller than a tennis court, I managed to miss every ball at the beginning.  Yes, there was a strong wind that day but this game was not quite as easy as I had expected.  Pickleball is a quick, easy to learn, and powerful game providing aerobic exercise, movement, eye-hand coordination and even stretching.  And you can’t play it alone so it pulls you into a social environment which is good for your health.

What is Pickleball?

According to the USAPA, U.S. Association for Pickleball – yes there IS a Pickleball Association: 
“The rules are simple and the game is easy for beginners to learn, but can develop into a quick, fast-paced, competitive game for experienced players.” (sound anything like internet marketing or home-based business?”)

Pickleball is a paddle sport created for all ages and skill levels. You play with a racket that resembles a paddleball racket.  The court is designed like a singles tennis court.  You use quick and often wrist shots like in badminton and ping-pong to hit a plastic ball that has holes in it.  This game can be played indoors or outdoors, singles or doubles, but it not a solo sport.  It requires connecting with other pickleball players, available and welcoming new players, in most cities around the U.S.

6 Lessons I Re-Discovered While Playing Pickleballl

1. Men will be men.

The first week the notice was posted inviting people in our community to come, learn and play pickleball, there were several men and about half the number of women. I arrived early and started hitting with Howard, the man who had organized this group.  To my dismay, I actually missed every single ball.  As a competitive tennis player, this was quite upsetting, but I rationalized that I had not actually played tennis for almost 2 years. True, it was a particularly windy day.  My building complex is across the street from the ocean, adjacent to the intracoastal waterways, so it sometimes can get quite windy.   But wind or no wind, I thought I was looking directly at the ball and missed it anyway.

Then a few women arrived.  What a relief to see someone else completely miss the first few balls.  The women were put together on the second court to practice, not actually play a game.  The second week, a few new women arrived and I felt like a pro.  I was able to hit the ball more often, still missing quite a few, and I could explain the game to the newcomers.

For the third week, none of the women came.  I was the token woman.  It felt like a bold move for me to approach the court, but one man offered to hit with me to practice. I got a great workout, was able to hit the ball more consistently, and the leader told me I was ready to join a game.

The following week, again, I was the only women there.  Taking a breath, I opened the gate and was invited onto the back court.  The arrangement was that the winning doubles team on the back court would move to the front court and the losing team on the front court would move to the back court.  Not what happened when they had a woman on the court.  We played 2 games at 11 points each and my partner and I won the 2nd game (due to my serving well and hitting my share of winners) in time for the other court’s players to be ready to switch.  So, the organizer asked my partner who he wanted to play with on the other court – and they left me on the loser court. 

MEN – Have You Ever Excluded Women From Work or a Game?
WOMEN – Have You Ever Been Excluded From Work or a Game?

Yup, the old boys club and men will be men.  This reminded me of so many times in my earlier years playing paddleball or tennis, and even in my position as a professor at the college, when, no matter how well I played or worked at the time, the men would prefer to play or work with the other men.  But I was happy that my game was steadily improving. 

2. Keep your eye on the ball

From my very first day of playing pickleball, I realized how important it was to keep my eye on the ball, to actually pay close attention to how the ball was moving and how it had been hit.  That first day, with the wind, the ball shifted to one side so even though I was looking at the ball itself I was not prepared for the angle at which it would bounce.  My focus on the ball continues to improve.

Do you easily take your eye off your goal and get distracted?

How often have I taken my eye off my current goal, getting distracted and busy with activities that may or may not further my business objectives?  And in so doing, I find I do not have enough time left to get the job done that I intended, such as a blog post by a certain date or an ad for the course I am planning to promote.

3. Plan your strategy

Pickleball seems like such a simple game but, just like any other game or life endeavor, it does require strategy.  My strategy, as I started playing the game, was to serve the ball with a bit of spin.  Unlike a tennis serve that requires full body motion, turning and a powerful thrust, the pickleball serve is an underhand serve.  Power can be attained from arm strength but a ball that goes over the net with slice or twist or drops low at the opponent’s feet, is an easy miss for the receiver.  Even a soft serve can be harder to return than a flat ball with pace.

Do you have strategic plans for your business and your life?

You need to evaluate your strengths and weaknesses, the skills and flaws of your opponents, and how you can use your abilities to surprise them and catch them off guard.  With internet marketing and coaching, we talk about discovering what our clients want and need, what keeps them up at night, what they are afraid of, what their objections are, and then plan our strategy to help them want what we are offering.  In this game, my strategy is to help the opponent miss the ball and not understand what happened.

4. Be proactive and go toward your goal

In tennis, the top tournament players are proactive and hit the ball on the rise, not giving it much time after it lands.  But some of us have gotten complacent.  I love warming up and taking a nice full swing.  I love the feel of smoothly turning my body sideways, taking a back swing and then gracefully gliding the racket so that the ball makes contact in the center of the strings.  However, as the game gets faster, my movement has to get faster, with a shorter back swing.

For me, running side to side at the baseline has always been easy.  My struggles would come when a ball drops short, closer to the net, and I have to run forward and bend down to scoop it up.  Well, pickleball has that problem solved.  In every game I have to run forward and scoop up balls.  This game gives the perfect practice that I know will improve my tennis game the next time I venture out onto the bigger court.

Are you proactive or passive in your business and daily life? 

If you want to meet the love of your life, it will probably not happen if you stay in your home or apt.  You may have to join an online dating site, write an inviting profile, include a flattering photo of yourself, and also attend some local live social gatherings.  For business, you may have to make a series of cold calls, you may have to take some refresher courses or inspirational programs to pep up your motivation.  Being proactive leads to desired results.

5. Be prepared for the unexpected

As I was playing the game, my opponent hit a ball that appeared to be on its way out of bounds, but then it actually landed in.  Instead of going after it, I just assumed it was going out, did nothing and lost the point.  That happened a few times and I realized how important it is to be prepared for the unexpected and to be proactive – not passively waiting.  I can’t wait to play again next week, moving more quickly toward those balls that seem to be going out.

How prepared are you for the unexpected in your business? 

I always laugh when someone teaches about improving productivity.  Inevitably there is something, often more than one thing, that takes a lot of time and energy to deal with and handle.  For example, ordering a new table for my new computer.  About 1/2 hour after ordering it, I realized it was not the right height.  So I called the company only to be told they had probably already shipped it.  So I called again the next day and was told to wait until the package arrives, call them again, and send it back.  That is only one small example of a time consuming unexpected nuisance.  and there are so many of those types of things in any given work week.

6.  Work as a team

We played doubles games in pickleball and I was reminded, once again, about the necessity for teamwork.  Each of my male partners went after every ball that was anywhere within his reach, even if it was really my shot – my backhand or my overhead.  By so doing, they may have gotten that one shot but they were then out of position, on my side of the court, leaving a wide opening for the opponent to place the ball for a winner.

Are you a team player and have you created a team for your work?

I am a good team player.  I know my role and attempt to work within the agreed upon system.  However, for my business I have been attempting to do it all myself.  Finally, I have begun to appreciate the value of working as part of a team.  How much more could I accomplish with other people handling some of those nagging details or technical issues I still struggle to understand.

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17 thoughts on “Pickleball Anyone? 6 Lessons Learned About Business and Life

  1. Joy Healey

    Hi Erica,

    The man / woman thing has never been a problem for me at work. When I first started out in computing there were very few women, and I was one of them. But it didn’t seem to matter so I was lucky.

    What has been more of a problem for me (funnily enough in both work, life and sport) is “keeping my eye on the ball”. I am very easily distracted. Sport I’ve given up on LOL, but life and business, now I’m aware of this “character flaw”, I’m focusing on focusing!!

    In our business we are pretty good on team work – both within teams and cross-line. It’s great because we can learn so much from others, and also teach others, to help the whole business. Definitely good!

    Joy Healey – Blogging After Dark

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    1. drerica Post author

      Hi Joy,
      Not everyone has had difficulty with male-female relations at work or anywhere else. But we all have certain areas in which we struggle. I can easily be distracted by the next “solution” to my current concern. As they say, “When the student is ready, the teacher appears.” So, when I am struggling with a problem, several teachers manage to “appear” and I can get distracted by signing up with one, and then another and then another, leading to so much to handle in addition to my original problem or issue.
      So I also need to focus on focusing.
      Warmly,

      Dr. Erica

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  2. Elise Cohen Ho

    I have heard so much about Pickleball lately. I know that it has been around for a very long time but I do believe that it has had a major resurgence. I love the connections that you have drawn in this post.

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    1. drerica Post author

      Hi Dr. Elise,

      I had heard of Pickleball before but I thought it had only developed in the past few years. After reading your comment, I googled about the history of the game. It was developed in 1965 by a man who wanted a game his whole family could play on an old Badminton court. The first official Pickleball court was created in 1967. I never would have looked for this game but it was introduced to me in my building complex. Turns out to be quite a fun activity.

      Warmly,

      Dr. Erica

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  3. Marquita Herald

    What a valuable post Dr. Erica! I love all your lessons, but the first one is especially important given the events of recent months. I’ve spent half my life dealing with the old boys club, even in sports. I’m a golfer and thankfully we were members of a private club on Maui so I was able to learn the game and build my confidence before going public. Even so, you can probably imagine the response the first time I joined 3 men for a foursome on the course at Ka’anapali Resort! The best experience though was playing in a celebrity PRO-AM tournament with a VIP client … a Japanese man. Oh my, if looks could kill. But we actually came in second place that day so his stone face turned into a nice wide grin and I was pretty proud of myself. I’m glad you hung in there, we belong wherever we want to be. 🙂

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    1. drerica Post author

      Marty,
      I love discovering new things about someone I’ve known for awhile. Did not know you played golf, and competitively. Women still have to prove their ability before they are accepted whereas men are usually given the benefit of the doubt until they continue to prove their lack of ability.
      Warmly,

      Dr. Erica

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  4. Donna Merrill

    Hi Erica,

    I have been invited to my town’s Pickleball but didn’t take anyone up on the invite yet. However I have watched people play and love your analogy in this article.

    What sticks out to me the most is be prepared for the unexpected. We can plan a strategy, keep up with our goals but we must always have in our mindset that the unexpected will arise. It is part of life. No matter how much we can keep our “eye on the ball” we can miss something in a blink of an eye. It is that way when we are running a business.

    Great stuff!

    -Donna

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    1. drerica Post author

      Yes Donna,
      So much is going on when we are working in a business, especially one that is mostly online. Tech problems crop up, web connection goes down, printer doesn’t work, emails go to spam, typos happen, and then there are life issues that interfere and other people’s needs that pull on us.
      the good thing about a game, like pickleball, is that it’s just a game. When the game is over, it doesn’t have much impact on the rest of our life – except maybe to provide some social contact and a good workout.
      Warmly,
      Dr. Erica

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  5. Chery Schmidt

    Hello Erica! This is the first time I have heard of this game, pickleball and sounds to me like you are having a great time with this one! I loved your lesson with this “Keep your eye on the ball” Yikes this my friend has been a challenge for me my whole life! As I can get distracted every easily! This my friend was a great lesson for me.

    Thanks for sharing..
    Chery :))

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    1. drerica Post author

      Chery,
      I am also guilty of taking my eye off the ball. When I am involved in what I consider an important project with a defined time span, like creating a virtual summit, I am able to keep a steady gaze and get all the details completed. But for the long haul, I can easily get distracted and jump from one activity to another – until something strong catches my eye and I get into a new, all-in, project. Not sure what to do with those in-between times.
      Warmly,
      Dr. Erica

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  6. Sonal Talwar

    Hi Erica

    Wonderful post! It was great to read about Pickleball – of which I have never heard before. It is very true that in life there are certain areas where we have to struggle with man-woman relations. Fortunately I have never faced such struggle in my work place.

    Thanks for sharing the valuable post!

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    1. drerica Post author

      Sonal,
      So good to hear that you have never had to struggle with man-woman relations at work. I think there is much more awareness now than there ever was.

      Warmly,
      Dr. Erica

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  7. Sadhan Pal

    This is my first word I just learned in this blog Pickleball. It’s game and probably it is popular in USA. As asian I don’t know about this. Thanks for hearing for the first time.

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    1. drerica Post author

      Hi Sadhan,
      Most Americans also do not know about Pickleball. It was started about 50 years ago by a father who wanted to play a game on his Badminton court with his family. I just discovered it recently because there was an invitation on the bulletin board in my building. And it is so much fun – easy to learn and lots of movement involved.
      Warmly,
      Dr. Erica

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  8. Edward Thorpe

    Hi Dr. Ericka,
    Love this post because it reveals another shade of your life. Also thought it clever how you used pickleball to point out various life lessons.

    About the gender bias, it’s real, it’s demeaning, it’s baseless, it still covertly exists and I’ve spent a lifetime against its practice. To do less would have disappointed my Wife, my brilliant Mother, my 4 Sisters and my many Nieces and my 3 smart Granddaughters!
    Edward

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    1. drerica Post author

      Ed,

      It does help for you to be surrounded by women. They certainly give you a perspective that other men may not understand, e.g., if they only have 1 sister, several brothers and more men around than women – especially during their early developmental years.

      Warmly,

      Dr. Erica

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